Tuesday, September 22, 2009

watta week

first were a 3-day getway in Poro Point in La Union... i were invited by DPP(Digital Photographer Philippines) editor-in-chief Nino Carandang to join them...

here's some takes during that trip


Next is lastweekend's Caltex Clean Up drive in Anilao, Batangas.... at first when tok ask me if i want to go to anilao, i were hesitant to join because i have a shot in pampanga and we've just got home from La Union... but after thinking of things.... (i told myself... what heck! go to anilao!) i decided to join him,kha and chai... we left manila/las pinas(tok's place) around 12midnight and arrived in anilao around 3:30am...

some snap shots during the clean up


Chai - Kate

Thursday, February 26, 2009

14th Philippine International Hot Air Balloon Fiesta

ah yes... Hot Air Balloon... i were lucky (and my friends) to get a photographer's pass during the event. we were really happy that time. :D thanks to DPP and Caltex for the event. *for the my complete set go to http://bjhernandez.multiply.com/photos/album/150/14th_Philippine_International_Hot_Air_Balloon_Fiesta and here http://digitalphotographer.com.ph/forum/showthread.php?t=21221

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Tuesday, February 24, 2009


yeah... it's my 1st time to print a 10x12 photo using a metallic paper... and im so happy with the result. :D i really love how digiprint prints photos. they do really justify. yes, there's still better print shop/studio who can print better but as for digiprint offering a cheaper alternative is good for photo enthusiast. :D

Wednesday, January 14, 2009


by Dov Heller, M.A.

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no
one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%,
it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to
finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married,
they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people
make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on
love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a
profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of
a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love
will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship
on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about
finding and keeping a life partner.

QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?

Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for
20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you
plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a
common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or
(2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.

QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?

This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The
basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won't
get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you
feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with
yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the
person you plan to marry.

QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?

A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you
test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a
regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of
mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good
and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they
do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic
person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.

There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who
are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to
seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will
put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know
that before walking down the aisle.

QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?

The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the
ability to give.. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.

Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they
wrapped up in themselves and selfâ€' absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people
whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi
drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them
everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that
someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.

QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?

Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention
of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of
mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are
now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with
your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating;
to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on
your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't
do your homework.

Another perspective...

There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a
distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at
least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible,
not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones don't appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and
caring words or annotations.

The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and
truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets
to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.

An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open,
and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity,
ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to
warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can
change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete,
compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make
someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you
won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness
or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the
wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Making of Ramon Bautista, master rapper daw

bagong kalokohan na naman ni iDol Ramon Bautista... "Master Rapper"

Tuesday, September 02, 2008


just wanna post an old photo from my archive... shot during the mercedes-benz masters tournament @ Malarayat Golf and Country Club.

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Booze up @ Booze Stop,Makati

it's good see old faces again after quite sometime...

really have a good time last night with glenn, betts and the Verzosa family... :D tambay ulit dyan soon...

oh and congrats sa Booze Stop for breaking the sales record two nights ago. sana tuloy-tuloy na yan.... hehe

it's not a regret to miss one of the biggest concert (Eheads Concert @ the fort) for the experience and great time i have with this guys... :D